b'warning signs of depression and other mental illnesses so they can obtain proper treatmentReassure them that you, together with other appropriate adults, will take care of themLet them know they can approach you at any time if they want to talk about it; communication with your child/teen is very important to everyone; understand you are all grieving, and use this as an opportunity to ask questions and share togetherChildren may express their feelings by crying, withdrawing, laughing, or expressing anger at you or others; risky behavior, or fighting with siblings, are also common reactions; be aware this may be a response to the loss, and seek the right support for your child or teenResume and maintain the childs regular routine as much as possible; encourage them to stay engaged with activities that make them feel successful; these routines and activities are usually the first things to disappear after a lossThe greatest gift you can give children is your assurance of love and supportAllow them to express their feelings, answer their questions, and provide them with affectionPlay! Kids grieve in spurts; they may not always be sad or crying, and want to engage in play; play is an important part of healing for children, and allowing the space to play will help them heal and growAFSP partnered with The Dougy Center, The National Center for Grieving Children and Families to create a booklet of information on talking with children and teens about suicide. If you have children or teenagers, or are supporting them, we 18 Surviving a Suicide Loss'